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Life comes with risk

April 24th, 2024

Describe a risk you took that you do not regret.

Risks they say is something everyone will pass through in our life but God knows how scary it can be taking a risk on something that you fear the most. Most business today all generated from all type of risk and they at times failed but yet, the founder made more risks in order for the business to thrive

I can remember very well some years ago when I was very very little in my esteem and ways I see myself. I was once a fat or should I say a chubby looking guy who people don’t fail at any given chance to mock the way I look and truth be told, I almost looked femanine because of my body shape. This really took a huge troll on my confidence and the way I see myself until I decided I won’t remain a slave to low self esteem and I came to realise from what a friend told me that you are what you are based on your own definition. No one and I mean NO ONE can decide for you or define you against your own wish. I started doing more public speaking, at my church I will come out for testimony not because there was an actual testimony to be shared with the church but because I wanted to fight the spirit of stage fright. I just wanted to conquer the spirit of fear and it was a struggle. I can remember each time I come out to speak, there will be eyes been thrown at me and this highly discouraged me but I didn’t care. All I wanted is to overcome my fear of what people may think of me, overcome my fear of meeting people and been able to stand in the crowd with my head held high.

To the glory of God, I did all that and now I can say I have built my confidence so much that I look way more handsome than before not because I lost a few pounds but I believe in myself. I looked good outwardly because I felt good inwardly. What a risk I took that looked very huge but it did pay of and I don’t regret it at all.

Do any of you have any risk you took that you want to share with us? What did you do and how were you able to overcome it? Do comment to share your thought
Celebrating 10 years of Words

April 23rd, 2024

A decade of been a soulful writer🎂🎂

Looking back at when I came into the world of writing, I will be so amazed that this young fellow can really be a great motivated to not just the people of Nigeria but beyond the borders of Africa. Honestly, I will say it can only be God. If you look at what I have accomplished, you may stop to think that maybe been a writer is a very interesting career to Vault into but truth be told, it isn’t. There were times I was discouraged, there were times I will not post anything for months that it was looking like I will drop blogging. Getting subscribers and getting my words been spread across just Facebook only was a struggle but yet, look at what I have been able to build with this community.

How I started

Beginners luck 🥱😂

This was the year I stumbled upon someone whose words were Soo drilling that I was like, “Clinton, don’t you have what it takes to write too?? You are gifted with a mind that drills and you have the ability to speak and many listen”” So I took it upon myself to start it. It was not an easy Journey because I kinda left writing for a whole 2 years and it was because I was discouraged by those I thought were my friends.. Even the person I was in a relationship with them never believed in what I was doing and she even supported others than me that was she was dating. How I wish she can be here to know that not only did my gift of writing reach the skits if Nigeria but other countries in Africa and Some European countries too have subscribed to always hear what I have to say! Yet I’m still battling with the need of subscribers but yet, 10 years gone and now, my words are been supported by counties around the world. You might be wondering, what are the accomplishment that I have made? Oh I will tell you soon…. Grab a cup of lemonade and read on

See what this year did for me😊

The birthday that brought me my most accomplishment

This month, April marks my birthday month this year and I’ll say the universe really surprised me with more national views globally and not just that , my financial limit was grown so so much that I’ll say I’ll soon become the latest millionaire in town😊🥰. I came to realise that my long awaited prayer was answered and countries that I never could not imagined viewed into my reels and I was shocked. I also made friends from Kenya, Algeria, China and also South Africa too which this individuals has added one or two inspiration for me to keep writing and I owe the little success this community has achieved to them but most especially, I’ll give accolades to my able Kenyan friend Pooja J who is also an amazing person who writes from the heart like I do. She too actually added one or two and also supported this community also. I’ll say it’s because of her, I gain more reelers from the Kenya soil😊. Another amazing thing is Google already identify me as an Author and I’m working on my book which will soon be published. So this is my accomplishment and I’ll say thank you all for making this a dream cometh true. I love you guys so much.

Her Royalty Pooja 😊
WORDS NOT SAID

April 19th, 2024

WORDS NOT SAID

If you can hear my silence, then you can understand my words

Words they say are audible,
Loud enough for people to hear,
A word is enough for the wise,
As they do say,
But are they really wise???

Are they really listening??
To the words we say!!! To be understood comes with a struggle, when words are said to a fainting heart!! But isn’t it meant to be so???
I do speak! I do loud out my thought!!
Even from the deepest part of my heart, but to those that hear, are they really wise?? Are they really wise?? Wise enough to understand??
If not! If not!! If not!!!
Why not stay quiet!!!

Silent is when something isn’t said, no words are made at all, but this is really when words are said. A soul been alone, keeping to him or herself mostly, does that mean they aren’t friendly?? NO! NO!! NO!!! ….. Infact they are, but now they aren’t!! Why? Because they stopped talking, believing nobody is listening!!

It got so so funny when you see a dumb person trying to speak with struggle, but that struggle makes us laugh!! Not when someone can speak BUT CHOOSE NOT TO!!! At this point of quietness, words are said in silence, words not heard, but when listened to, words are very audible!!! This makes us believe that in the presence of silence , words are said!! When listened to, becomes the list heartbreaking sounds to hear. Tears will drop, emotions will break!! Never underestimate a person that do not talk, for they talk way more in questions than they do on sound. For true WORDS ARE NOT SAID
PAINED TO BE STABBED 2

March 17th, 2023

It’s really hard I tell you 💔

As I ended the previous post, Forgiveness is the recipe needed to be awoken from the dead. Imaging going through a very bad experience and even if you didn’t cause a thing, you now suffer the trama of the pain and boom, you are now a living dead moving the street without purpose. You are seen wearing a very beautiful clothing, wearing nice perfumes and seem like you have the entire day planned out yet you don’t have a clue of what you want to do, as per day you are already dead. This can hurt you and hunt you even to your generations to come

You might be wondering, how is it easy to let go?? How is it easy to just move on? It all start with you? Yes you!!! Don’t look over your shoulder Mr, you!!!! Yesssss, you sir . I know you are trying to say how is it me but it’s you. The forgiveness start with you, you have to forgive you for you to move on. For you to come out of been dead and moving the earth without purpose, you move with forgiving you.

Start with forgiving you, go on prayers. Yes you heard me. I know you are just trying to be adamant to what I just said!! Wait, did I just hear you hiss?? You see why I said you are dead!! 😅😅😅. Just kidding but seriously it works. You need to Go to God in prayers and pray…. With all this, trust me , you will be back in no time. Tho been stabbed is an evidence that you might dye while been widely awake.
Painful To Be Stabbed

March 17th, 2023

When the Phrased “TO BE STABBED” comes unto someone mind, the major respond is when a sharp object maybe it be a knife, cutlass or a dagger been sank deep into the person flesh causing heavy bleeding and perharps death. Tho this isn’t the case but the similarity of all of the definition we all know is death. Why is it death? It end something, it terminate something, it seizes to exist and this is not only applicable to life. Trust can be killed, friendship can end, homes can be destroyed, marriages also can end. Technically speaking the end of things meant death. You can be alive and dead. You can dress so well, smell really nice, have alot of money stacked up in our various account but yet, DEAD. let’s go into details and am sure everyone of us have been STABBED at a point in our life, we were once a living dead. We actually became zombies

It’s a very normal thing in our lives to get disappointed, to argue or to have a misunderstanding about something. It’s very normal. Infact, misunderstanding and arguments are the major ingredients to the development of any form of association may it be family, romantic friendship, casual colleagues at work or even our church members. At a time, we will not be on the same boat of understanding which is normal but what isn’t normal is when someone who makes you feel you can trust them, confide in them, understand them, rely on them or should I say someone that can carry you to cloud 9 can stare at your face smiling and holding your hands making you feel you have their support and love only to stab you, only for you to realize you were trusting someone that isn’t true to you or using you. Deam, it can be hurtful.

Stab Means deciet, lie, pretends, carrying someone into a state of Vulnerability and dripping them at their lose moment. Funny enough everyone of us have kinda prepared ourselves to be ready for this kind of issue tho what makes it very painful is when it comes from those did not expect it from. I technically can heal from any disappointment because I have seen it in full 3D display so am almost already used to it but Good Heavens knows I can die if it comes from someone you trust and they still look at you dead in the eye, now that kind of stab can kill you. That can of Stab can make you a living dead, that kind of stab can turn you into a zombie of no purpose in earth.

Many of us are still living a life of insecurity and fear because truth be told, you are a zombie. Yes you heard me, a zombie. You have been filled with a negative mindset that even if you genuinely like someone, that mindset will make you bite them without them doing nothing to you. I was at that stage, many did that to me and I wondered, what was the cure?? What can transform this?? FORGIVENESS AND MOVING ON. to be continued
Major comeback

March 17th, 2023

Given the thought of how the world is been filled with Highly intelligent people like myself and how we are surrounded by one another greatly affect the turn around of how our future will be. Just as the great book said, “SHOW ME YOUR FRIEND AND I WILL SHOW YOU WHO IS AM”

Get MOLTIVATED is not something that just came out of the blue into existence. At times, this is a far away version of knowing who the writer is. Many read through my content and comment that I have amazing words and writing in addition showers praises on me not knowing this is a story of the writer, ME. I am an envelope of experience that if you come close to me, you might be carried away by my maturity and personality whereas I am a drumfull of pains and grieve which I resulted into writing them down to feel better. Along the line as I thought, will I be writing and writing for fun? Why don’t I bring together a community of people who are in the same verge I was years ago to learn from my story and other stories too. I am Douglas Clinton, welcome again to my World

Welcome to Get MOLTIVATED

Welcome to ME
MARRY CHARACTER NOT BEAUTY

November 2nd, 2020

Born into a poor family of 5 where I am the youngest, we were nicknamed the dark-side of beauty because of the deformed shape of my mother and dwarf size of my father, we were seen to be so unfortunate not only were we poor but not physically presentable or attractive. Not that we beg on the street nor ask for alms, we were not seen to be fortunate because of our look. No one wanted to flow with me, no one wanted to be my friend, always bullied day and night by people and nearly raped twice by people I took as uncle and the most painful part of it was that I don’t deserve love it or feel like I need love

Now 21 years of age, still lonely with no real friend except my bestie that keeps telling me that I am beautiful and amazing not knowing that the beauty he was referring to was my character. I took after the muse behaviour of my mum and was her exact carbon copy in all the way I act. Unknown to me, my bestie was attracted to me but I didn’t know. Even.when he tells me that I am beautiful, I cry and feel he is mocking me more because people don’t make me feel beautiful at all. Only did I fail to understand that those that loves you for you can only give you a pure love.
PS *IF YOU ARE WANTED FOR WHAT YOU HAVE OR WHAT YOU PROCESS, THEN YOU ARE NOT LOVED

Finally I gained admission into the university to read my deserve course MEDICINE but seriously, I saw beautiful looking girls in the department that I didn’t feel I belong here but because of my friendly behavior, I tried been acquainted to them but the statement EWWW WE CANT MOVE WITH YOU, WE CANT AFFORD TO STAIN OUR IMAGE YUCK was always said to me continuously. I felt so bad, never in my life did I feel like I wanted to die. When I told my bestie how my look was used to make me feel little, he always tried to encourage me. There was a time I was so sick that he stayed with me all through and never did i know my friend was into me despite him having a girlfriend, I just thought he was been friendly abi??
PS *IF YOUR SIZE, SHAPE, LOOK OR FINANCIAL STATUS ARE REASONS WHY PEOPLE CANT BE WITH YOU, YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY THAT THEY ARE SAVING YOU THE HEARTBREAK THAN FOOLING YOU

When the harassment was too much, I wanted to stop schooling because I hated my look so much that I couldn’t stand in front of a mirror anymore because I can’t stand my look at all. When I got the to meet my bestie crying, I wondered “DOES MEN TOO CRY?* I asked him what the problem is and he told me that he caught his girlfriend kissing another guy. OH LORD, why Na!! Fine boy like him, very generous and yet he was hurt but yet never did i know he wasn’t really hurt , he wanted me all along but I didn’t notice him and not that I didn’t notice him,i just didn’t feel beautiful enough to be noticed.

One day I was just discussing how it will feel like to feel love one day and be with someone that sees me to be beautiful and make me feel beautiful and all along that I was telling him how I felt, he was just smiling and blooming stares at me. I got really uncomfortable and shy that I just looked away and walked away but deep down for the first time,i felt shy inside me and surprisingly felt beautiful because I know it’s only when Someone is beautiful that’s when they will be stared at. Then one day, he came out to tell me how he felt. Instead of me feeling amazed, I had this feeling of anger inside me because I felt he was making Mockery of me and I have him a very dirty slap and warned him to never mock him again.
PS *WHEN WE ARE CONSTANTLY FILLED WITH A WRONG BELIEVE ABOUT THINGS, WE GET ACCUSTOMED TO THAT BELIEVE PLUS LOVE IS VERY SCARY ESPECIALLY WHEN ITS COMES AT YOUR GUARDED HOUR

For 2 Month, i ignored my bestie but deep down I missed him. I wanted to reach out to him but I was do sure he was mocking me. Unknown to me, he had a surprise for me that will melt me so badly. When I couldn’t take it in anymore, I went to beg him and show an apology to him but he wasn’t anywhere offended in me,instead he knelt down and apologized to me then started confessing his mind to me. At that point, my head swelled so big that I was like maybe I was in the could. At that point, I felt love so loved that I didn’t know when I started crying. I asked him how he could love an ugly girl like myself and he said *IT IS YOUR INNER BEAUTY THAT MAKES YOUR OUTSIDE BEAUTY GLOW* I didn’t know when he kissed me. At that point , I never felt ugly again. I believed I was beautiful because you are beautiful only when you act beautiful.

Lesson: Never feel ugly, never see yourself to be ugly for you are what you believe. Alot of those movie stars and vividly gorgeous looking celebrities are having their fan base because of their status and that doesn’t mean they are not hated by at least someone!! Many ladies hide under makeup and when they remove their makeup, you wonder if you missed road or you dreaming!!
CHARACTER WILL ALWAYS HAVE AN HIGHER HAND TO BEAUTY
Good morning
#GETMOLTIVATED 
COME WITH THE WIND

September 26th, 2020

Deng, it’s Thursday. The last day to the beginning of another weekend . The Lord had been so merciful to drop his mercy upon us to continue seening plenty and plenty days ahead. This year is really going with speed and many plans are yet to be executed but where there is life, there is hope.

Today marks 1 month and a week we went internet based and so far so good,we were able to reach over 300 views in the total article created on the blog but guys the number of followers in the site is low.. Guys support your guy Na, it won’t take a few minutes to just press follow when you enter the site.. Abeg help GMBC get 100 followers and the highest invite per person get a free subscription from me .

So far so good, I appreciate you all for following up tho for its the views that matters. Now, each article made reaches over 100 people and I am glad for that and I say thank you  and I know you can do more. Special thanks go to my fellow admins and moderators for their support and invite too especially Susan Achanya, Mhiz Ijeuwaoma and few others for their invite and support too. May God enrich you for me.

I promise to keep on doing what I do, GMBC is here to support you, Inspire and feed you with words that sinks deep. 

#I_remain_clintwise
#Get_moltivated
WHAT IS LOVE 💖

September 18th, 2020

Hello guys
We are here again, hope you are all fine and you are having a great week? Hurray, it is weekend again guys, time for relaxation and stretching those heavy legs from stress, lol. look at what I have for you 

Love they say is the most pleasant feeling that most of us want to experience! It is been said that the world was created out of love and God is love. Love is so peaceful when real no wonder all the fruit of the spirit of a Christain all connect with love which is Joy, Gladness, Goodness, Peace, long-suffering, Mercy, meekness, faithfulness and temperance which is talk about love in one full blow.

Love to me is what I call a meek wind that blows without no force that drills peace and sweetness down the vine of the soul but Common we humans have tend to use this lobe against us all. Now Love today looks scary, when the statement I LOVE YOU is said, there is this fear that flows down your body that makes you wonder if the person is been real or not, unhealthy behavior and thought are seen to be displaced all in disguised as love. Now people use the word LOVE as a tool for evil since love is very peaceful, bad intension can not be easily be noticed until you have fallen so deeply that you get bruised and what pains me so well is when they say that is love for you, that when you fall in love, you get hurt.

I will say that statement isn’t true, yes when you fall, you get hurt. When you fall, you get bruised, when you fall you get scratches and you don’t even wanna stand up but with love, when you fall, you bounce back up like a ball. You don’t stop hoping in that love because it build this unseen but satisfying willingness to try again. Love doesn’t hurt unless you are investing it in the wrong person

I have fallen inlove and had my share of the bruises, cut and wounds but they can’t heal at all if I remain on the ground crying over a cut wound instead of bouncing back up. Now I now love, now I know have what it means to be in that atmosphere feeling what it likes to have this peace in you. Yes, it cannot be perfect, yes it cannot be true but willingness to make it work and believing that it will flow as you expect is what love is.

Love is never a mistake. It is either made for you to learn from it or grow with it. I am happy I have an opportunity to have that feeling again and if you are in my shoes, don’t stop. Don’t let go especially if it is what you have always prayed for. Love solely without fear and give it your whole knowing it is worth it and I believe it is worth it loving you!

I love you all Realers
Thank you for your support and views a through
Love is for the strong
Been careful not to be heartbroken means you aren’t strong enough to love
Give it a trail, it is worth loving

Have a pleasant evening guys
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FRIENDSHIP THAT STICKS DEEPER THAN BLOOD

September 16th, 2020

Friendship they say is a very beautiful thing that is very pleasant when you are with someone or group of people that loves, cherish, make you feel valued and uplift your moral when you are down. Even me so much valued the need for connection and relaxation with this word FRIENDSHIP but not all friendship looks pure as it appears so

Yes, no one is perfect and there is no assumption to creating a MR RIGHT FRIENDSHIP OR MRS RIGHT FRIENDSHIP but still you come to realize that in few friendship that you value, it’s not what you place into it that comes out equally. That is to say, there are friendship that will make you and also mar you that is why we have to be very conscious of the company we call friendship because it’s not all surface that glows when the sun strikes on it

I have had my fair share of association that was so terrific at the beginning and it looked like this set of people were sent from above to mix with me and help me grow but along the the line folks, the reality that revealed the truth about the sincerity of this association dropped a grenade that blow away my self esteem of confidence aside only to pick up those broken and shattered pieces of my esteem and re-assemble them back, little by little trying to make myself the way I was before but the scare of the past downfall makes me not to look same.

Sometimes beautiful they say comes from God and still, something Beautiful takes time. That is, at times we all need and want to be happy with someone who makes us feel welcomed and astonished all the time in what we do but the repeated cycle of failed friendship and relationship makes you believe that beautiful thing doesn’t exist but it sure do. Just that you just need patience to meet it.

Everything happens for a reason. You meet certain people that just assist you at the moment, some help you in the moment, some give you the compassion you looking for at the moment while some betray you along the line and that amazing friendship that looked so POWERFUL now drags on the ground like something no more familiar.

Just remember that when you meet someone that makes you feel valued, needed, appreciated, wanted, proud of you, carries you along their life and make you a priority, please hold on tightly. Don’t and don’t make your self a slave to a friendship you aren’t happy with…. Just do you and who sees you and values you wil come and allow me to say pray too. Prayer might look odd to some you my fellow readers but it sure works a long way

#FRIENDSHIP_IS_GOLD
#GOLD_IS_COSTLY
#THEN_TO_FIND_THE_RIGHT_SET_OF_PEOPLE_IS_COSTLY

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How I started

See what this year did for me😊